Blogging: 5 Things I’ve Learned

1. Blogging is a great way to learn about writing. I’ve been blogging for over three years now, but I only got serious about it in the fall of 2010. I was recovering from surgery and had lots of time on my hands, so I got to thinking: why not scrap my old (read: dead and decayed) blog and start a new one?

Not exactly a revolutionary idea, I know; but the second time around, my mind was made up: I wanted to do this thing for real. I wanted to stick with it. I wanted to learn more about writing through blogging.

And I did learn. I am learning. Blogging has helped me discover practical, down-and-dirty stuff about writing that I might not have discovered otherwise. At any rate, I wouldn’t have discovered it so quickly. In the words of Marc Cortez,

For some, blogging is like journaling. How you write doesn’t really matter. The blog is simply a forum for getting your thoughts down “on paper.” And there’s nothing wrong with blogging like that. But I’ve come to value blogging for something else: learning to write well. I still have a lot to learn, but I think I’ve made some progress. And I’ve learned some great lessons along the way.

Have I learned all there is to know? Hardly. I’ve only just scratched the surface of what it means to write well. But I’m working on it. And I know for dead sure that the scratches I have made wouldn’t be there without the experience I’ve had blogging.

2. Haste not to publish. This advice is pretty much ubiquitous throughout the blogosphere, but that does not make it any less important.

As I’ve pointed out elsewhere (and others have pointed out before me), blogging is not an occupation to be taken lightly. You are in a position of leadership, whether your following consists of one reader or one million. Your thoughts, your beliefs, your opinions are available to the entire cyber world at the click of a button. And because of this “instant access” capability, it’s very easy for us to lose sight of the duty to weigh our words.

The advice to think before you speak applies to the blogosphere as well, and I’ve tried not to forget that. It hasn’t always been easy, but I’ve learned the value of chewing on my thoughts before I spit them out. Do I really have anything worth saying on this issue? Or is it better for me to  just keep my mouth shut?

As Plato observed, “Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools because they have to say something.”

3. No spitting, please. As a blogger and reader of blogs, I’ve come to more fully appreciate the differences between good argumentation and bad argumentation. One of the biggest differences between the two is the way they’re communicated. An argument is much more convincing when it’s calm and clear-headed than when it’s spittle-soaked and obnoxious.

Am I saying it’s wrong to write with passion? Not at all; if you’ve hung around here long enough, you know I’ve written my fair share of passionate posts. Nor am I saying that we shouldn’t infuse our writing with a little spice now and then – spice can be most helpful, as writers like Mark Steyn can testify.

But hear me out: there’s a difference between arguing with (spicy) passion, and being just plain vitriolic. If I have something to say, chances are you’ll at least listen to me if I talk reasonably and with conviction. If, on the other hand, I spit in your eyes while shouting in your face… well, in the immortal words of Ah-nuld, “Hasta la vista, baby.”

It’s usually pretty easy to tell when a writer is angry and looking for someone or something to stomp on. When that happens, I’m not inclined to stick around for the party. So I take what I learn as a reader and apply it to myself as a writer: if you want people to hear you out, don’t shoot them with rock salt when they sit down to listen.

Now, I’m sure there’s a small percentage of the population that enjoys getting shot with rock salt. But they’re masochists. A serious pain in the *cough* posterior. Not the sort of people you want to hang around with, either in the real world or in cyberspace.

And if you do want to hang out with them… allow me to show you the door.

4. It’s not trash, so don’t throw it away. Ever come up with a great idea and then fail to find a way to use it? I have. And the temptation is to scrap the idea completely. Don’t do it.

Your first option is to look at what you’ve got and tweak it. Are you trying to shove a square peg into a round hole? Do some carving. See if you can approach it from a different angle. Get your hands dirty. Mess with your idea. But don’t chuck it away altogether. Even if you can’t use it now, you can probably use it later.

I’ve started writing posts, only to give up halfway through because it just wasn’t clicking for me. So I saved my work in draft form and walked away. Weeks, maybe months later, I’ll have renewed inspiration and continue the post as is. Or I’ll rework it into something different. Point is, I don’t throw the stuff away. It’s still there, waiting for me, when I decide to give it another go.

5. Beware the Matrix. Don’t worry: I’m not gonna pull the “crazy sci-fi fanboy” persona on you. No cool sunglasses, slo-mo martial arts, or references to Lewis Caroll. Relax. Breathe deeply. Here’s a blue pill and a red pill – you pick.

Just kidding.

In all seriousness, bloggers have to be constantly on guard in the area. Getting sucked into the online world, to the exclusion of the real world, is way too easy. I’m not immune to that – no one is. It’s tempting to build a virtual reality for yourself behind the “safety” of your computer screen, to the point of caring less and less about the real world and the people near you.

When that happens, you know your priorities (and your sense of reality) are seriously whacked out.

6. Where would I be without music? Yes, yes. I know I said five things, but I felt compelled to throw this in, too. All you mathematicians can sit down now.

Music, for me, is both relaxing and energizing. It can’t be anything with lyrics: that quickly derails my train of thought and I’ll find myself typing out the lyrics instead of what I originally wanted to say. Instrumental I can usually work with, though. It gets the creative juices flowing, helps me think more clearly.

Something like that.

Jazz is nice, and so is classical – especially if we’re talking Bach, Beethoven or Chopin. Film scores are also a favorite. In fact, if I’m working on a movie review, I’ll often listen to the soundtrack that goes with the film I’m writing about. Some would call it “getting into the zone.” That particular phrasing is a bit weird for my tastes, but it gets the idea across fairly well.

Crank up some Hans Zimmer, bro. Let’s get this party started!

27 thoughts on “Blogging: 5 Things I’ve Learned”

  1. Great post! I’ve been blogging for years now, but I’m still learning how to write good posts, unfortunately… I’ve only been really serious again though for a few months. I’ve never really thought to keep posts that weren’t working though. Not on purpose that is. I might try that. I usually try to write a post and throw it away or delete it if I can’t get it to work within a week or two, unless of course, it gets misplaced.

    Haste not to publish is a good reminder too. :)

    To the KING be all the glory!

    1. I’ve been blogging for years now, but I’m still learning how to write good posts, unfortunately…

      Learning to write well is an ongoing process. It never ends, and though I’m no expert, it sounds like you’re on the right path. :) Glad the post was a blessing!

  2. Very insightful.

    Maybe a little redirect, something I think I’ve said somewhere else as well.

    James 3 begins:

    My brethren, let not many of you become teachers, knowing that we shall receive a stricter judgment.

    When you sit down at the keyboard, it’s easy to forget this, or to think it diesn’t apply ‘here.’ But I am convinced that all the admonitions about sins of the tongue, etc. that James lays out need be transferred to the blogopshere. And it is, if anything, exascerbated by the relative ‘anonymity’ of that ethereal world.

    I think you have captured pieces of how James applies here and there, but useful to take up and read and see where it applies. Maybe number 6…or number 1.

    Christ’s blessings on you.

  3. Hans Zimmer!! Wooooot! *cough* ;)

    Great post! I’ve learnt a lot of similar things during my minimal experience as a blogger. It’s good to remember the responsibilities we have in what we write and how we share it.

  4. Aye, what you said was dead-on. Blogging does teach you how to communicate your thoughts more clearly, and kind of forces your writing to improve. (But in a good way.) It is a fun thing to blog, but it is also a tricky thing, a thing pulled off well by very few. (Yourself included in that number.)

    Great post, thanks for sharing.

      1. I also liked the Zimmer party comment. That was pretty funny. I have his piece “Molossus” from Batman Begins as my ringtone.

  5. Good post, Corey. I’ve only been blogging steadily for a little over 3 years so I’m still a relative newbie. It’s been a good medium to help me find my “voice”, which is still a work in progress. I have several languishing drafts which may never be posted. Often I realize they were written in haste about a subject that doesn’t need another opinion thrown at it.

    1. Bingo. In fact, points #2 and #4 in my post are closely linked: don’t throw away your ideas in haste, don’t use your ideas in haste. Careful consideration in all things is generally a good rule. I’m learning that more and more. :)

  6. I’ve started to highlight all that I was strongly agreeing with and soon found that I was about to move your entire awesome post into the comment section, lol. As a fellow booger blogger, I’ll have to say that you’ve learned well, very well!

    And Ink, Happy Birthday! I know I’m a bit late, but late birthday wishes actually make the celebration last longer. :-)

    I thank God for you!

  7. Great reflections, Ink. #3 is particularly important online, where it’s far too easy to let a good argument turn into an ugly war. Like Rebekah above, I’ve usually scrapped the posts that I can’t get to work, so I’ll have to try your 4th suggestion and see how it works to come back to posts a few days or weeks later.

  8. Is a non-blogger allowed to comment on a post about blogging? If not, too bad, cause I will. :)

    I was going to object to the whole 6th thing, but the fact that it was music saved you. Though, you could have changed the title of the post, just saying. :)

    Also, Hans Zimmer’s music is awesome. Howard Shore’s, too.

    1. Yeah, I know I could’ve changed the post title – but the rebel in me said, “Nah.” ;)

      Agreed on Zimmer and Shore. The latter’s score for LOTR is one of the greatest pieces of film music ever written, in my opinion. I also love the work of John Powell and James Newton Howard. And of course, John Williams. :)

      1. Yes, I’ll agree with you on Shore’s LOTR score. Pretty much best moment of the year was when I got to play The Return of the King score for fun with my orchestra… ahh… :)

        Although actually, I’ve played all of those composers except for Howard. Life is good. :)

  9. Hello Ink! I am your Mom’s friend. I just stopped by to get your blog address in order to send our son Austin over for a visit. He is the same age as you, give or take about 10 days. :) I appreciated this post. You have much wisdom for one of your age. It is a blessing to see. God has blessed you with godly parents who have trained you up well. May the LORD bless you richly in the days and years ahead.

    Many Blessings,
    Camille (You may address me by my first name…as we are fellow bloggers…and our last name is taboo in this blog-world…thank you!)

  10. I was using a different account for the last comment. Just to let you know who I am. I blog at Flowers in HIS Garden and my name is Camille. I am sending our son Austin to visit with you here. :)


  11. Great points. (I, too, listen to the soundtrack while writing a movie review, if possible. Either that or have the disc in and play the credits music of the actual movie…) It’s been awesome to follow your blog for awhile. Keep going for another year!

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